still, today, my mom thinks she needs to tell Alec to go to the bathroom. he has always had constipation, not sure what she's using for him right now. she had to have it her way, Alec got off the van, and I was out there, wanted to put right in the car before he could go in settle in and say he didn't want to go, but no, she came out, the look on her face, the reaction, says to me, Sheri, he needs to go to the bathroom. well needless to say, I left. that may have been when I officially started to lose my son. anyway, Alec once, and Beth, never. my kids have strong bladders. I do too. well why should Alec get on the pot and struggle to poop. he's got lots of hemmroids.