when I was pregnant, went out to lunch with Dave's mom and asked her about Dave's biological dad's blood/heritage/free tree and she looked at me like I was insulting her

she didn't even tell Dave that her husband John wasn't his real dad until he was 14.

He said he had/his mom had, something about his mom's side and he could send me a copy,

but he never did.

I always think of this around St. Patrick's Day.  Want Beth to know, and keep it.