I do not care one lick what that lawyer has to say, especially, me, living with little money, and him thinking that all of Alec's money should go into savings, that's for people who have money, like my parents, who would have left me homeless if I hadn't gone deep into credit card debt. Guardianship is granted when something happens to the birth mother, and if those aren't my rights, then the laws are bunk, the laws are violating me. Sometimes, even in your family, when you disadvantaged, they will go out of their way to bury you.