here's how this whole thing started. I wanted to work, but had two disabled kids, so I asked my mom to watch them, she didn't want to, but told me, I want to get paid to watch your kids. The greatest thing happened, Alec got off the waiting list for the MR waiver, so I could get staff to take care of him while I worked. Then the suggestion of CCO came up, and it seems good, because it wouldn't be an agency, I could hire anybody I want to be his staff. Sooooo, I hired my mom, my daughter, and my step dad. Probably the wrong thing to do. Then the suggestion came up that Alec needs a legal guardian. Well, any day, I could die from targeting, nearly have several times, and I'm on psych meds which could cut my life short, so I said, I want you (my step dad) and my daughter to be legal guardians. Ohhh, boy. Now EVERY decision is made by them, I no longer get to write up the goals, approve the hours, get calls and meetings from the case manager or the broker, and they hold the...